Crazy Psychologist: Chapter 642 between inferiority complex and control
"That's it, look at the wound on this leg."
When Liu Tiantian found out the previous photos, Mu Chun was also a little surprised that the girl still kept them carefully.
"This wound really looks like it was driven in with a nail. Is the cat still limping when walking?" Zhang Wenwen felt a little distressed looking at it.
"A little bit." Liu Tiantian said.
"And the leg was shaved."
"um, yes."
"Did Mu Chun shave the cat's hair when he treated the cat's wound?"
Mu Chun suppressed the urge to hit Zhang Wenwen, and said, "I didn't shave the hair on this leg."
"Nonsense, that's too tidy, didn't you notice? At that time, the hair seemed to be shaved with depilatory cream or depilatory wax paper."
When Zhang Wenwen said this, it was Liu Tiantian's turn to be surprised, "How do you know all this?"
"If you don't know, the hair removal movement has been around for almost a hundred years. It's a weird movement that started in the West. It started with armpit hair and leg hair. It's actually a bit anti-human.
Now there are many people who advocate that there is no need to demand women in this way, and it can be regarded as part of women's rights. "
"Wait, we're talking about cats." Liu Tiantian corrected him a bit, for fear that Zhang Wenwen's words would be endless.
"In this way, it really doesn't look like the kitten hurt itself, but whether it's depilatory cream or wax paper, it's not for cat hair removal, it's for human hair removal, right? Who dares to move hair on cats ?”
Before Mu Chun finished asking, Zhang Wenwen and Liu Tiantian said in unison: "A cat abuser can do anything."
After finishing speaking, Zhang Wenwen added: "Don't look at some cats that dress up cats beautifully and take pictures. If they turn around, they will knock the cat to death. There is only a difference between 0 and countless times of cat abuse."
"It's too cruel." Liu Tiantian shook his head and couldn't help biting his fingers.
Mu Chun looked at the photo and didn't speak for a long time, as if he was thinking about something important.
Suddenly, Liu Tiantian said: "Dr. Mu, do you still remember what I told you about my friend? The one who was mistreated by Yang Xing."
"Pua?" Zhang Wenwen made a tsk-tsk sound, "Teaching this kind of course online can make a lot of money, and now the world is going downhill, and people are panicking. Peerless good men like Mu Chun and I are scarce. "
"It's not scarcity, it's because you don't have the means of the PUA group. They will first do what they like and care about girls very much, making girls feel that this is the person they are looking for, and then they will become your girlfriends and let you I think he is the best person to confide in. They seem to have a good career, and they often start their own business, have a small car or go to some literary and petty bourgeoisie places, and some people are very caring.
Those people keep giving girls an impression through social networking sites that they have a certain taste in life, love learning, and are aggressive in their careers. "
"Sounds like the ideal dating partner." Mu Chun closed her eyes, as if muttering to herself.
"That's right, that's it. That's how my sister was hurt. She was very cautious at the beginning, never thinking that she would meet a caring, handsome and polite boy, although he is not one of those famous university graduates, moreover They are not international students, but they have a positive attitude towards life, and their daily conversations are very heartwarming.
It will appear when girls need it, instead of pestering girls all day long. "
"The right indifference is especially useful for girls. It will affect the girls' minds and make them think about what that person is doing and whether he will ignore me. In the end, it is for the girls to think about it. Is she not good enough?"
"That's right, Mr. Mu Chun seems to be very good at it."
Liu Tiantian wanted to give a thumbs up, but felt that this kind of thing had hurt countless kind and stupid girls, and it was really not worthy of praise.
"Next, the boy will show another side."
Liu Tiantian bit his lip, Zhang Wenwen listened more attentively, "On the other hand, is the heart of a tiger and wolf exposed?"
"Do you really not understand at all? Dr. Zhang?"
Liu Tiantian couldn't believe it. The Dr. Zhang in front of him had absolutely superior conditions. The most commendable thing was his good family background. This was beyond the reach of many PUA men. In the final analysis, it was almost a pain in their hearts, so they liked to find people from those family backgrounds. Good girls, educated, even strict tutors.
If these girls are alone in a strange city or have just graduated and work in a company, their lives are relatively unstable, and there is a stage for them to play.
Shush about the cold and ask about the warmth, but also indifferent.
After that, he disappeared suddenly, and when the girl asked anxiously, she said that she was very inferior and felt that she was not good enough for the other party.
"To put it simply, after we have known each other for a while, boys suddenly start to feel inferior. At this time, we start the exchange of soul mode. It completely stimulates the sympathy of girls."
"Ah, there is such a thing? I probably don't understand what our boys are thinking. I have never been so troublesome to chase a girl. Does Dr. Mu Chun have it?"
Mu Chun closed his eyes and shook his head.
Zhang Wenwen asked wonderingly, "Are all boys like this now?"
"Some boys are like this. After such an in-depth conversation, the girl's heart is tied to the boy. Of course, this is what the girl came up with." Liu Tiantian became more and more angry, opened the refrigerator and took a bottle of soda water.
"Girls have some feelings of the Virgin Mary, or natural motherhood? In fact, girls should be more selfish and take care of themselves. Why should they take care of a man whom they have not met for a long time?"
Zhang Wenwen said he was very puzzled.
"These full sets and lies are difficult to distinguish clearly, otherwise there would be bad people who would turn this kind of thing into a knowledge and teach it online, right? It’s just a piece of skin, and it’s not easy for everyone to notice.”
"For example?"
"For example, the 'future elite exchange group'."
"Ah? Shouldn't it be something like 'Waste Wood Concentration Camp'?"
Zhang Wenwen said with a smile.
"I'm not joking with you. What I'm talking about is true. They will also pass on their experience to each other. For example, have you met a good prey again? Have you got any new meat recently?"
"Is it possible to directly buy and sell resources? Introduce it to another boy?"
Zhang Wenwen thought about it for a while, but he met Liu Tiantian's knife-like eyes.
"After the inferiority complex is over, it's time to enter the third stage, to determine the relationship, and to go further, to be indifferent, push down and picky."
"Picky? How picky? Don't the previous scripts look like dog-licking scripts? Warm male style?"
Zhang Wenwen stood up on purpose and turned on the coffee machine. Mu Chun was woken up by the roar of the machine.
"I'm listening, you don't need to make it so loud on purpose, please bring me a cup of coffee too, Liu Tiantian, you continue to talk."
Liu Tiantian didn't expect that Mu Chun didn't drive her downstairs, but asked her to continue talking. The encouraged little nurse nodded and continued speaking seriously.
"And then there's the hellish inferiority complex."
"Inferiority blow?" Zhang Wenwen seemed to be listening to a scripture.
"It's all kinds of disgusting eyes and words that make girls feel inferior and doubt themselves."
"Is it any good for boys?"
As soon as Zhang Wenwen finished asking, Mu Chun came out with a weak voice, "This will make girls afraid, afraid that if they don't do well, the other party will leave her."
"Isn't dating just based on likes and dislikes? Oh my god, am I out of touch with society, or is it that I can't get a girlfriend because I never demean women?"
"Probably." Mu Chun smiled and motioned Liu Tiantian to continue.
"Doctor Mu, why are you so interested in this all of a sudden?" Liu Tiantian finally couldn't help asking Mu Chun.
"I'm just thinking about something and I'll tell you when the time is right."
"When?" Liu Tiantian was impatient.
"It's the right time." Mu Chun said coldly.
Zhang Wenwen saw that Liu Tiantian was looking a little ugly, so he quickly smoothed things over, "Dr. Mu just didn't think of what to say, so he said the right time." After speaking, Zhang Wenwen walked over to Liu Tiantian with a coffee, leaned over and whispered in her ear. Said a few words softly.
Liu Tiantian suddenly realized, "So that's how it is."
"Well, you don't need to worry about him, he will naturally say it when he thinks clearly."
"Well, that's the case with my friend. She came to me after this kind of inferiority complex appeared more and more frequently, and she told me that she had dated a boy. I went to see that Yang Xing's personal page, I felt that my friend was cheated at that time, and all kinds of persuasion were useless."
"Are all women in love blind and deaf?" Zhang Wenwen was a little annoyed, and afraid of some misunderstanding, he changed his words: "Could it be just normal unhappiness between lovers, and there is no such thing as deliberate blow to self-esteem?"
"Do you mean that girls think too much? I don't think so. I think a boy starts talking about a girl in various ways. After the relationship is established, that is to say, after the girl falls in love with him and regards the other person as a relationship object , Boys start to dislike her in various ways, which is a problem, either because they don’t love her anymore, or there are other reasons.”
"Liu Tiantian, have you ever been in love?" Zhang Wenwen gossiped.
"I was in love in college, but I haven't since, but this doesn't affect my analysis of men. Don't forget that I am also motivated to become a physical and mental doctor like Teacher Mu Chun. Analyzing a person's thoughts and behaviors is also one of my daily tasks.
Even in the past, I also liked to analyze this kind of emotional problems. After listening too much, I can judge people very accurately. "
Liu Tiantian still had great confidence in himself.
"This hell-style low self-esteem attack is really useful. It's just irritating. My friend was a very cheerful girl, but she was depressed all day long. When this boy gave her a message, she was happy. She couldn't wait for a few hours. When she hears about her boyfriend, the girl is out of her mind, always feels that the whole world is dark, and becomes extremely inferior."
"Mu Chun, why is this happening?"
"Well, it's related to many reasons. Fundamentally, most girls have relatively strong self-esteem. These boys have studied the situation of their partners at the beginning, and they tend to choose girls with better family background or better education. , These girls may have been required to be outstanding in all aspects since they were young. The pressure from the family already exists. When this kind of girl interacts with others, she will pay more attention to her own performance. Breaking up a relationship. They are more afraid, and if they are more afraid, they are prone to nervousness, and they are also easy to be..."
"Being pua, too much, killing without blood."
Liu Tiantian was very angry.
"Usually not only that, there may be some financial intersections between them. For example, women will mostly help men, because men will say that they have encountered some difficulties, such as debts or want to help family members. In this case, Girls are likely to offer to offer that she can help."
"Is it just to take the initiative to give money to boys? Why do you let such a good girl down." Zhang Wenwen was full of emotion.
"That's not the case, it's a kind of control. Once there is a financial intersection between two people, the one who pays the money wants to control the relationship more, and will feel that she controls the relationship. In fact, it is not the case. At this time, the male side Acting very grateful while showing disgust from time to time, or saying, "Which girl is so good, she is so good", this will make the other girl feel very uncomfortable, and she wants to do more to please the other party, sometimes it may not be It's to please the other party, she just wants to control the relationship, the more the person who gives more, the more concerned about losing."
"If you don't love, then it's over?" Zhang Wenwen still believes that the relationship between the two should be based entirely on love.
"Of course not. Once a girl pays a lot of money, it will change. She just feels that she loves each other so much that she loves to death. I don't know what my friend is in love with. That man is busy for a while, and for a while pestering people, made her almost insane."
"Love is very simple, but it is also very complicated. People may not be able to distinguish what it feels like to love, especially when they are caught in a relationship that is always dangerous, people will be afraid of losing, and the more they feel afraid of losing Strong, the more you pay, the more you pay without logic, and then you get no return, you will enter extreme inferiority complex and madness, this is the most terrifying place in the whole pua~www.mtlnovel.com~ Yes, my friend is only for Yang This scumbag Xing committed suicide once."
After Liu Tiantian said this, Zhang Wenwen finally knew why she was so serious when she talked about it.
She also roughly understood why Mu Chun asked Liu Tiantian to continue talking. Perhaps Liu Tiantian's refusal to speak out was also a kind of heart disease for her.
"Mu Chun, who would summarize this kind of thing into a curriculum and teach it everywhere? This kind of thing is too much."
"The person involved may not think so. First of all, it can bring money. In this era, money is something that can deceive the soul, and no one can get rid of it. Secondly, the most terrifying thing is that when you brainwash others, you must first brainwash yourself. These boys may not think that they are Do something wrong."
"That's right, if people feel that they have done something bad, it will be somewhat uncomfortable, but some boys don't have such thoughts at all."
"Those who lie to others lie to themselves first." Mu Chun concluded.
"Then won't girls resist?" Zhang Wenwen said angrily.