Crazy Psychologist: Chapter 422 if you can\'t say it
Mu Chun explained to Dai Lan the harmful effects of [pica] on children's health in easy-to-understand words, and told Dai Lan, "Such children often have some communication barriers with their parents, such as long-term poor parent-child relationships, parents There is no time to take care of the children, the children are lonely for a long time, or some children eat those things uncontrollably because they are afraid of losing something. They may not think that those things are delicious when they eat, but eating When eating and after eating, children will have a sense of security, they will feel safe, feel that fear is fading away, or feel that their prayers will be fulfilled.
The child is helpless. In many things, the child is not able to fight for and work **** his own like adults. The child wants to find his mother, but he can't do it, he can't find it.
When Zhou Ming came to the hospital for the first time, he yelled away all the doctors, and then escaped through the window of the emergency room.
Do you know where he went? " Mu Chun sighed.
Dai Lan had tears in his eyes, "He escaped from the hospital and didn't go home. Where could he go? In such a cold weather, where can he go? He's only so young."
"He went to look for you. Only you know where he will go to look for you. I don't know, neither does Dr. Fang Ming, and obviously Zhou Ming's father doesn't know either." After Mu Chun finished speaking, she remained silent without looking at Dai. Lan, just sat silently opposite Dai Lan as if transparent.
"I don't know." Dai Lan replied frustratedly and impatiently.
It seems that it is too difficult for Dai Lan to take on the responsibility of mother now.
Mu Chun thought to herself.
How could the parent-child relationship change over the years, a father who drank alcohol, and a mother who was busy with work, and Dai Lan seemed to never want Zhou Ming to know about this job.
If you want to hide it, how can you take the child back to take care of him.
Thinking about it this way, it would be better for Zhou Ming to stay in the hospital for his health, but how could Mu Chun manage such things.
"Okay, then do you know what Zhou Ming ate, can you think of it?"
Before Mu Chun finished asking, Dai Lan shook her head impatiently, "How do I know, I don't know."
"It's wool. Could it be some kind of toy? Or something like a blanket at home?" Mu Chun tried to help Dai Lan search for possible "food".
Dai Lan looked at Zhou Tong in disgust, and then looked out the window.
I don’t know when it was dark outside the window, and there was a feeling that the night was coming early again. In January, the sky was full of cold, and in the winter around the sea, countless sorrows condensed.
"If you think about it again, this matter is very important, because [pica] will relapse, if you can't guarantee that you will appear in front of Zhou Ming on time every week, you'd better remember what made Zhou Ming behave like this Eat, eat, eat for so long, is there anything at home that can be eaten all the time without being discovered?"
When Mu Chun said this, Dai Lan started to get a little nervous, and tried to turn her head around, wool, wool, wool~~~~~~~
Suddenly, Dai Lan thought of it.
"Xiao Neng, it's Xiao Neng." Dai Lan shouted excitedly.
At this time Zhou Tong also woke up, "Xiao Neng, what Xiao Neng?" Zhou Tong who just wanted to come was startled, and it took half a minute to realize that he was in the hospital.
"It's just in time for you to wake up. Let me ask you, is there anything wrong with Xiao Neng?" Dai Lan asked Zhou Tong.
"Uh, I can lose hair, my ears seem to be bald. You said I'm not bald yet, why is this bear so bald?" Zhou Tong said confusedly.
Mu Chun probably understood, this "Xiao Neng" should be a toy doll, a "little bear".
"It's really possible. When I went to pick up Xiao Ming at home, I didn't seem to see Xiao Neng. Maybe he hid it on purpose. Why didn't I find it?" Dai Lan said with shame.
"Then in the next three months, the two of you should pay more attention to Zhou Ming's situation, especially the one who has been with Zhou Ming for a long time, and don't let Zhou Ming eat these things again." Mu Chun said.
"However, how do I know if he will eat? I can't keep looking at him." Zhou Tong asked with a weak voice, yawning.
Seeing Zhou Tong's unpromising appearance, Dai Lan was furious again, and said: "Then why don't you just throw that bear away? Wouldn't it be better if you just throw it away? What else can he eat if he doesn't have a little ability?" ?”
When Mu Chun heard it, his heart skipped a beat, as if a mineral water bottle had rolled down the steps, or someone poured a basin of glass marbles on Mu Chun's heart.
Mu Chun stood up, and seriously explained the ins and outs of pica and the common causes to Dai Lan and Zhou Tong again.
"This disease is common in early childhood, and it may continue to develop for a long time. Years of research have shown that although this disease is related to the lack of a certain trace element in the body, Dr. Fang Ming has already checked Zhou Ming and ruled out the lack of trace elements. a question.
Since it is not a problem of lack of trace elements, we have to think about it from other aspects, and then pay attention to it. "
Before the two could speak, Mu Chun continued to speak, and the more he spoke, the more serious he became, and Dai Lan and Zhou Tong listened more and more seriously.
Mu Chun vaguely felt that perhaps the [Authoritative Words] in [Talent Points] played a role, no matter what, at least the two of them now heard Mu Chun's words with their brains.
After nearly an hour of talks, there was finally some improvement
Zhou Tong said painfully that the child's loneliness was his fault, that he couldn't quit drinking, and every time he thought of his failed life, he wanted to drink even more. If he could quit drinking, he would do anything.
Dai Lan didn't believe Zhou Tong's words, but she also tried to encourage him, "You'd better work harder, work harder, Xiao Ming is still young, since it was agreed that Xiao Ming will be taken care of by you during the divorce, you should also take responsibility. .”
When Dai Lan said this, Zhou Tong was actually very unwilling to listen to these words. He felt wronged. He knew that Dai Lan was doing some not-so-glamorous work outside, so he didn't dare to speak or scold. They are no longer husband and wife, and secondly, what qualifications does he have.
Every time Zhou Tong thought of this, he wanted to plunge into the wine and fall asleep day and night.
"Okay, I'll think of a way to stop drinking." Zhou Tong said through gritted teeth.
"You must not drink alcohol for the next half month. After half a month, on the 23rd, elementary school should have winter vacation. At that time, you need to spend more time with Xiao Ming. No one can do these things except the two of you. Nobody can help."
Mu Chun sincerely begged, he was asking his parents on behalf of Zhou Ming.
"Then, I'll try to visit Zhou Ming in the middle of the week, for example, to pick him up from school, is it useful?" Dai Lan stood up.
"It's useful, very good. Is there anything else I can do?" After Mu Chun affirmed Dai Lan, he continued to hold Dai Lan to let her think about this question.
Zhou Tong on the side was thinking about other things, and after a while he said, "Then should we throw away that little energy?"
After hearing Zhou Tong's question, Dai Lan was also very puzzled, so the two looked at Mu Chun together, "You can't throw it away, but you can buy a new bear, a new start."
"Then the old one is still at home, what should I do? One is called Xiao Xiong and the other is called Xiao Neng? They are all placed on Xiao Ming's bed?" Dai Lan asked awkwardly as she rubbed the back of her neck.
"Buy a new one first, it is best to give it to Xiao Ming in a safe and warm atmosphere, it can be the same doll as this Xiao Neng, tell Zhou Ming to take good care of it, don't let it lose all its fur. " Mu Chun suggested.
The two nodded, and Mu Chun saw that the communication had achieved some effect, and the relationship between the two was not as stiff as before, so he suggested, "If it is possible, even though they are divorced, the children are still shared by the two. I can't spend more time and methods with my children.
As far as I know, Zhou Ming actually understands the separation between the two of you, so he endured it silently, without arguing or making noise. When he knows what to do in a difficult situation, he screams, goes silent, or runs away. It's because he's a kid and shouldn't mature that many things. If you need to discuss it, I will go and see Zhou Ming first. This matter has to be discussed between father and mother. No matter what your relationship is, the child still sees father and mother.
For a child, besides father and mother, who else can he rely on in his world, and who else would he want to protect? "
After Mu Chun finished speaking, she turned around and walked towards the door, but Dai Lan seemed to see tears flashing in Mu Chun's eyes.
The tears also seemed to flash into her eyes.
Fifteen minutes later, Zhou Ming had changed his clothes, held Mu Chun's hand, and smiled happily.
"Magic, doctors really have magic. I believe it. I want to be a doctor with magic when I grow up. Doctor Mu, is there any doctor whose magic is specially used to take care of children? It is only used to help children I want to be that kind of doctor and protect all children." Zhou Ming looked at Mu Chun seriously and innocently and said.
Zhou Ming, who raised his head, blinked his round and bright eyes.
Mu Chun squatted down, helped Zhou Ming straighten his collar, then patted Zhou Ming on the shoulder, and encouraged him: "All doctors are doctors who protect children. Has Zhou Ming heard of pediatricians?"
Zhou Ming shook his head.
"Well, pediatricians are very hardworking, very serious, and very kind. Their daily work is mainly to treat the children that Zhou Ming said. If Zhou Ming is willing to endure hardship and spend a long time practicing magic, he can aspire to become a pediatrician now. After Mu Chun finished speaking, she nodded vigorously at Zhou Ming.
Zhou Ming immediately made a winning gesture, "Okay, then I will aspire to become a pediatrician and protect all children in the world."
"Okay, I'm waiting for you to join our team of doctors, and look forward to your efforts to help more people." Mu Chun also followed Zhou Ming's example and made a victory gesture.
The door opened, with Dai Lan in front and Zhou Tong in the back. Their eyes were red and swollen. Seeing that Mu Chun was about to say something thank you, Mu Chun shook his head, looked at Zhou Ming again, and gently Push Zhou Ming in front of Dai Lan.
"Mom, I want to be a doctor, and I want to be a pediatrician when I grow up, okay, mom, okay?" Zhou Ming hugged Dai Lan and said happily.
Dai Lan looked at Mu Chun at a loss, and Mu Chun nodded with a smile.
"Okay, good, being a doctor is very good, very good, Xiao Ming wants to be a doctor, mom... Mom and Dad must support Xiao Ming, and study with Xiao Ming when they have time after get off work, okay?
If you want to be a doctor, you really have to work hard now. Doctors are people who read a lot of books and have magic. "
Mu Chun didn't know how Dai Lan would say that the doctor had magic. After thinking about it for a while, it might be that Zhou Ming had mentioned in the office that Mu Chun lied to him just now, and that there was no magic at all.
Anyway, when Dai Lan said this, Zhou Ming was very happy, and danced and took his father Zhou Tong's hand, "Dad, did you hear that? My mother also supports me to become a doctor. If I become a doctor, the first thing It's to cure your drinking problem, I don't want Dad to be drunk all day long."
Hearing this, Zhou Tong was speechless, tears seemed to block his throat, and his heart was full of shame and shame and shame.
After finally uttering a sentence, "Okay, listen to mom, no, listen to Xiao Ming, be a doctor, be a doctor."
———————
A family of three, father on the left, mother on the right, Xiao Ming held his father's right hand with his left hand, and his mother's left hand with his right hand, raised his head, and said goodbye to the nurse at the nurse's station proudly, and Mu Chun at the elevator entrance. I felt that Zhou Ming blinked at him, and in an instant, the stars were shining.
After sending the three of them away, Mu Chun walked to the nurse's station at a faster pace. Just as he was about to ask where Dr. Fang Ming was, the nurse said, "I'll help take in the patients later."
"Doctor Fang Ming, Doctor Fang Ming, accepting patients, 10 beds." Nurse Lin Han shouted.
Mu Chun saw that Fang Ming was skillfully busy receiving patients. At this time, Fang Ming looked completely different from Fang Ming who was in the surgery clinic of Huayuanqiao Hospital.
He is energetic, quick thinking, and has a warm heart.
While at Huayuanqiao Hospital, Fang Ming seemed indifferent and a little unapproachable.
Perhaps in Huayuanqiao Hospital, Fang Ming was seen more often by himself, but in Zhinan Subsidiary, Fang Ming was always busy among patients, or just got off the operating table.
Mu Chun waited in the corridor for a while, took out the small notebook in the pocket of the white coat, recorded the diagnosis of [pica] and the family treatment plan, closed the notebook after recording, put it in the pocket of the white coat, and looked at it. Time, I left a note for Fang Ming at the nurse's desk - I'll go see Bai Lu, see you later.
Mu Chun walked to the double ward where Bai Lu was. Bai Lu was sitting on the bed and looking out the window in a daze. From her line of sight, there was only a red outer wall of the hospital, but nothing could be seen.
She seemed to be in good spirits, but she didn't know what she was thinking, and she didn't notice Mu Chun standing at the door at all.
There was an open potato salad, a takeaway sushi, and a glass of milk on the low cabinet next to the hospital bed. Bai Lu could eat anything, and there were no special dietary restrictions, but looking at these foods, she hardly took a bite.
Mu Chun knocked on the door, Bai Lu turned her gaze away after a few seconds, and found Mu Chun behind the door, smiling beautifully but reluctantly.
"He went in." Bai Lu said.
"Ah, when? Yesterday or today?" Mu Chun asked.
"In the morning, he called me and said he couldn't pick me up and leave the hospital. I'm sorry. I guess it's about that. I read Weibo, and his fans knew about it, and many articles were talking about it. , but he never explained it to me, he just let me believe him, there has never been such a thing, it's not what it said outside." Bai Lu tried her best to keep smiling.
Like the weak sunlight, it barely stayed on Bai Lu's face.
Mu Chun nodded and admitted, "He told me that he didn't do it, he didn't do anything, but I always feel that he didn't make everything clear. The possible reasons are, first, maybe he He didn't know what was going on; second, he had something to hide.
Reason one, I can understand; reason two is more difficult, because what and how much a person wants to hide involves many aspects of that person, and it is impossible for me to understand everything clearly in such a short period of time.
If you want to know the truth, it should be easier than mine. "
You Bai Lu listened carefully to Mu Chun's words, her lips moved slightly, she wanted to say something, but she still didn't say anything, she turned her face and continued to look at the red wall outside the window.
It was quiet, but there were occasional noises from the corridor in the ward.
The ward is such a place, there is always sound outside, 24 hours a day, even if there is only one patient in the ward, as long as his hearing is not damaged, he will always know that he is in an environment where people are active. I met all kinds of strangers, and became less pessimistic and less lonely.
Of course, some people feel more fear and sadness when they are hospitalized. The difference between people is sometimes as huge as ants and elephants.
However, human beings are indeed so similar~www.mtlnovel.com~they are so similar that they are like a family.
"I'm actually~~~~~I'm not afraid of the doctor's jokes, I'm actually~~~~~~~" Bai Lu hesitated to speak, hesitating.
Mu Chun spoke out for her, "You actually believe in He Ping and your husband didn't do those things, right?"
Bai Lu shed tears, but still did not nod.
"Since you believe in him, believe to the end and tell him that you believe in him." Mu Chun said slowly, with a voice as soft as a cicada's wing.
"I don't know, I don't know, you know, I can't tell, when I think about it, I'm desperate, I don't know what to do, I become confused, crazy, overwhelmed, depressed, whatever It’s all bad.”
As Bai Lu said, she hugged the quilt and rested her head on her knees.
"It's because of my own reasons." Mu Chun said.
Bai Lu didn't want to say it, even Mu Chun didn't want to say what he really thought, because this thought was too terrifying, and it went against people's conscience.
When she found out that He Ping had cheated on a female fan, Bai Lu was in pain. It was as painful as most women knew that their husband had cheated. This pain gradually broke out, but along with this pain, it broke out and grew in Bai Lu's body. There was another thing she couldn't say.
https://
The genius remembers the address of this site in one second:. Mobile version reading website: